Moving On After Heartbreak

Most people, by the time they’re grown, have experienced at least one heart-break in their romantic life. You know: the gut-wrenching kind that leaves you scarred for life.

After being hurt so badly, it can be hard to think of moving on. Sometimes you may think you’ll never get over your lost love.

Broken heart

Image by Kiomi

While it may take time, once you think you’re ready then go ahead and get yourself back out there. Here are some handy tips to help:

1. Be brave

Just because you’ve been hurt before, doesn’t mean you should stop seeking relationships. You will need to let your guard down eventually. Love does hurt sometimes, but other times it’s amazing.

A great relationship will blend the both beautifully into one long journey—although, in a great relationship, the ups will far outweigh the downs.

2. Work out what you want

I believe you should learn something from every relationship and sit down and work out what you want from your next one. What will the relationship look like? What sort of qualities will your new romantic interest have?

Something amazing happens when we write goals down. The universe manifests to help us along and get our needs met. Just be careful that you don’t make your tick-boxes too specific. It’s not: “He must have blue eyes, blonde hair and be an architect.” Think more like: “Kind, family values, laughs a lot.”

Once you’ve written it down, put it away and forget about it. Chances are, you’ll find your list years later and realize it is a very accurate description of your new love!

3. Be your own person

When you do start dating again, don’t be one of those people who forgets about all their friends and gives everything up for their partner.

Keep your own hobbies, and try not to see them seven days a week. As exciting as falling in love may be, you don’t need to be attached at the hip.

If you are, you’re setting up patterns for failure later in your relationship—no one can maintain that level of contact with someone. And your friends won’t be happy, either, if you ditch them every time someone new comes along.

4. Have fun!

Take the opportunity to try new date ideas, push your comfort circles a little and explore new things. If you’re having a lot of fun on your dates, there will be barely any time to get nervous about it!

What tips can you add from your experiences moving on after heartbreak?

About Emma

Emma Merkas is the co-creator of couples' inspiration website $30 Date Night and author of the 'How Was It For You?' relationships and dating column in Australian newspaper, mX. You can also find her at her own blog or on Twitter @30dollardate.

Comments

  1. Hi Emma,

    This is a sensitive thing to deal with. Even though I have not experienced a heartbreak, I have blogged about how to get over with it coz I have seen many of my friends struggling through it :)

    You have given solid advice here.

    Cheers,
    Jane.

  2. Hi Emma,
    I too have experienced the heart-ache of a break-up. One thing that I know for sure is that we eventually move on and get over it.

  3. Emma,

    Great post here. I always say it’s okay to have a broken heart, just don’t have a broken spirit. It’s true that “the best revenge is a good life.”

  4. Work out what you want. I think this is one of the most important aspects of working through a break up. Also, it’s important to reflect, sometimes with professional help, on anything you may have contributed to the breakup. Are there aspects of yourself that you need to face and grow in? If you go to work on those, you will attract the right next person into your life.

  5. Phlorizel says:

    Yes indeed, moving on and not dwelling too much on the feeling of hurt is the best way for overcoming the pain. There are always ways that one can divert this feeling of sadness while gaining positive outcome.
    Nice post and it’s inspiring! Kudos! :-)

  6. Kendra says:

    I always recommend taking time assess your relationship history to see if there are any patterns occuring after a break-up. Many people tend to fall into the same unhealty patterns in their relationships over and over again. After the emotions have wore off from the break-up and when your thinking a little clearer, evaluate the past to make better decisions in the future.

    Great advice!

  7. After heartbreak, I have to go out and try something new. Just sitting at home, going through my same old routine just makes the pain even worse.

    I look for new people to hang out with, go to places I’ve never been, and even write articles I’d never considered writing.

    Thanks for the advice Emma.

  8. Delle Ruiz says:

    four months have passed after break-up. and still now, i can’t totally move on though we have new relationships. maybe this is the time to forget everything and to start new life. thanks EMMA.

  9. Eko says:

    i currently am going through a broken relationship. the lady i tot i loved very much and who loved me so so much, and have been with for 3 years just suddenly left me for some other guy. i tot it was kind of joke until 3 days ago when she was bold enough to paste the guy’s picture on her facebook page addressing him as MINE. i was supposed to go pay her parents a visit in december 2011, it was that same month that she broke this precious heart.

    its so so difficult for me, deeper than i have ever imagined, i cant explain the heat and dept of the pain because i truelly loved her. i hope to get over this time and 1 day look back and realise it was all for my good.

    • Cristina says:

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    • Joyce says:

      Same situation :(

    • michael says:

      I have the same problem. I wanted to die. The pain wouldn’t stop and I didn’t know what to do. I went to the doctor and he gave me something for the anxiety and I started seeing someone who really does care. Its been three months and I do feel better. Still hurts but much better. You are not second best. You have to force yourself to know that truth.

  10. McDonald E. Donatius says:

    it realy hurts when you try to live with the fact that its no more, remember, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, the best is yet to come around

  11. screwed my life up says:

    hi every1,

    i knew this gyal 4 years, we had such a laugh i liked her from the moment i see her, we were together 1 n half years, last 6 months it wasnt so great. i brought up her past becos it was stil ther he ex use to tx her n message her. i thot this was wrong. everythin tht went wrong in our relationship was to do with her past. i done everythin for this gyal, stuff tht people dnt do if ur together 10 years. i took her everywer, spent thousands on her. all i ever wanted was her love. however gay tht may sound. if there was such a thing as perfect it was her. i blame myself for us breaking up. but know its over i do think positive. im the most honest. trustworthy, loyal guy u could meet. somthing she always wanted. but seems no matter what i done for this gyal it would have never been enough.

    we meet yesterday for closure. thts a great way to get over an ex. i needed to ask her stuff and find answers to whts happened. and to be honest. she was literally begging for us to be friends.

    i cant be friends with some1 i think of as more. she was one in a million. and she knows i was hers. i deleted her number infront of her and walked away. when she realises after all her travels tht she could never replace me.

    i hope she feels how i felt when she ended something real good.

  12. Snab says:

    This one will help…thx to you guys.am goin through lots of hell. i feel like il never ever move on. I so love him much. would do anything just to be with him. have done things wich no women can ever think of doing to a man. yet he never saw all that. he never appreciated all what i gave him..BUT AM READY TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE. ONE THING AM CERTAIN IS I GAVE IT MY BEST.

  13. Sach says:

    reading related articles is good..i feel better realizing i am not alone feeling this way..

    we’ve both waited for each other for 15 yrs (barely out of high school) until his mom decided she liked somebody else for him (family friend’s daughter). they didnt like each other though but u have got to give it to his mom for being way persistent on her goal.being d nice son that he is & never wanted to hurt any of his parents he gave in & so we split up & my almost perfect dream for an almost perfect future marriage thrown away just like that.

    after several months the parents esp his dad saw some things that they dont like about her & so decided she may not be good for their son & thought they preferred me better (geez thanks)..but i couldnt have him back bec somehow he fell in love w/ her & fights his right to be w/ her..

    i couldnt cry a single tear anymore im just drained but i still hurt everytime i hear stuff about how crazy he still is over her.

    but i made up my mind. it’s not easy but i just cant waste my time & life crying over spilled milk..i will move on. hoping to find someone i will really be happy with in d future..God is good!

  14. crazygirl says:

    Im not alone same feelings it hurt like hell everytime i think of this guy i feel like im loosing my mind i want to call him or even see him.. life must goes on we need to learn from our past relationship. i love him so much but he never fight for me.. I hate my self for loving him!! and i know in time i can forgive for what his done to me!! I’ll try my very best to help myself to recover and to back my old me.. i miss my old me!!! Thanks for this steps and surely its helps alot.

  15. I still do love him (with all of my heart)
    We’ve been breaking and getting back together countless times
    And I sometimes think that he is acting the way he does becouse that he knows for a fact that I love him. I want to escape from all this hurt, n I know that I can because I only have to put my mind to it. HERE IS TO NEW BEGININGS…..

  16. angel reyes says:

    It was barely a month since I broke up with my boyfriend. It was me who made the decision since he couldn’t verbalize to me that he doesn’t love me anymore. It was so painful because the burden to make the decision or to save our relationship was mine alone. After few days from our break up I have heard that he’s already dating with someone else. It crushed me into pieces and from there on, I learned that the real reason why he doesn’t love anymore was he already loved another woman. It was painful. I felt rejected and abandoned. But I thought to myself that this is a reality that I need to accept. I need to move on even though it’s difficult. I should not let this get the best of me. Right now, I am still hurting and struggling how to survive my day..but I am positive that this will come to an end.

    • jackie says:

      ive been with my fiance for almost 9 years now, we have a home together a child together everything we own we got together. just recently i told him something that happend in my past while we were together and the only reason why i told him is i couldnt live with the burden anymore. weve always been a tight open honest couple and i guess thats why i had to tell him for us as a couple to move on, as we were hitting a brick wall for the past 8 months. we not together anymore and im completely destroyed i feel lost like my sould has died in a matter of a few minutes. i cant sleep and when i do i wake myself with tears. thoughts like last year was the last christmas spend together and my last birthday was with him and that makes me think thoughts i dont want to be thinking because i have a baby girl. the memories becomes so clear and i ermember everything the love trust moments why couldnt i think of it when i made my mistake. i know that evryone makes mistakes but ive made so many over and over i cant expect him to forgive me now even thought it was many years ago. i can live without him but i just dont want to he is all i know and im all he knows. i wish from the bottom of my heart that he moves on no matter how hurt im in i feel like dying right now he is so sweet caring and everything a woman wants
      please help me to be strong enough to let him go because i dont know how to pick up my broken soul

  17. tried says:

    I tried a different route. My girlfriend cheated on me. I was hurt sure. I then decided to ignore it and had that chat. The woman had cheated on me several times and I realised that she was no good. I dated all my ex girlfriends and shagged them all. I felt good enough to move on. A warm body makes moving on easy. The satisfaction was mine and the lesson is to get back in control. Not nice but it does work.

  18. lovable_essy says:

    Hi guys, Upon reading ol da hurting stories bout your luv stories. Actually i’ve experience da same way but for me da one dat i truelly luv betrays me 4 olmost 2yrs we’ve been 2gether although i tot dat ol da gud things he shown me is 4 real but 4 jst a single moment i discovered dat his already inluv w/ da othr girl snce been commited 2 each othr den der was a tym i told 2 myself dat i wll spend da rest of my lyf 2 ds guy bcoz of being too much inluv to him. .but w/out a sudden he jst left me! hw miserable my lyf wen i knew dat. dat’s y till now i’m trying 2 4get him bcoz i know dat his already happy w/ his new lyf hving a family. .i wish dat sumday sumOne wll treasure n love me 4 real jst da way i do.

    • Joy says:

      we have a d same situation, all im asking now to God is to give me a strength so that i can face all the pain that my ex bf had left me.=(

  19. Wendilyn says:

    this is really what i am experiencing at this time.I am a girl and the girl that i love who happens to be my roomate. It really hurts me everytime i see her talking with someone else on the phone. Right now i really dont know what to so or if i could follow these advices given here..

  20. Mitchell says:

    I been going through pretty stressful break up lately. I am not the first or will be the last. I been with my ex for nearly 6 yrs and during that time we had a long break but got back together. when she ended it i was totally shock. I accepted it as best i can. It took me awhile to talk about it to friends because i though i could deal with it on my own. Once i spoke to them things started to work out for the better. I have taken the more mature road and tried to move on. I have cut contact and just trying get my life back on track. Unfortunitly she doesn’t see it this way and has tried her utmost to some how keep me in her life. Its been nearly 4months and she is still trying to force herself back into my life in some way. I am lucky i travel alot but some how and some way she just finds away to get hold of me. She thinks i am doing all of this to harm her. But i totally agree with the advice and time heals all.

  21. Eddy says:

    dear all !
    I am dying inside! I can get over my ex boyfriend. It’s has been 2 years ago, still haven’t moved forward, can somebody please help me !

  22. Joy says:

    how can i moved forward immediately if i can feel the pain in my heart and i can always remember the painful thing he did to me?i really want to move on because it really affects my studies and i dont want that this heartbreak can ruin my studies and my life, i love him so much, but theres no chance that i can have him again because he already have a baby with his ex gf before and he choose to be with his baby. and i understand him thats why i really want to move on.
    please help me..=(

  23. michael says:

    Brothers and sisters in pain. I want you to listen to whitney houston perform at the 29th emmy awards. The greatest love of all. It truly helped me.

  24. michael says:

    Sorry 29th grammy awards

  25. Benson says:
  26. Denz Angelino says:

    Hi Emma! I had a relationship with 4 years but it seems harder to forget the past especially when that person mean a lot to you.
    Now that I am in a relationship again still I have a feelings when I saw him on facebook.

  27. michael gwarisa says:

    going through a heartbreak can be disturbing, i am going through one ryt now. the lady who broke my heart is the same lady who broke my heart early last year. after a three months months break we reunited. but this time around the heartbreak is too painfull coz i was alredy making plans of marrying her and spending the whole life with her. so i am finding it hard to get over her and move on. i have cut all contact with her but sometimes she texts me ofteny it it just worsens things. i want her out of my system. i want to gain the confidence again and move on.

    • walk away says:

      same here i just broke my heart today, i thought he was the one but i was wrong : after 3 yrs of being together i just realized that we’re not on the same page, so sad to know that he’s not that into me.I tried to confront him but he keeps beating around the bush leaving me hanging w/the questions that keeps popping up in my mind these past days. He said he could not give his answer until Tuesday but for me, i guess that was it. I’m moving on w/my life this may be hard but i know i can get by. :(

  28. Rich Pisz says:

    I have been married for almost 20 years…this April 2 nd. September my wife told me she wants a divorce. Almost 4months later and I’m no better off! The thought of this is unbelievable. Can’t eat, used to weigh 180 now 160. Can’t sleep but for a few hours a night. It’s not going away and I feel as if this situation has changed me forever. The worst part is my three beautiful children ages 11 16 and 19 who all live with us. What will this do to them? What happened to all the decent people in the world? I fear the outcome of my demise is soon upon me. Tried seeking counciling but no help there. Life is cruel and unjust in my eyes.

  29. Masnimak says:

    I too have been married for 22 years, together with my husband for 24, and 4 and a half months ago he left me, with the excuse of “I love you but I am no longer in love with you” so that meant he didn’t want to stay married to me any longer. Now he is dating a women 20 years younger. I feel rejected, replaced and humiliated. The pain is so intense, and I feel so lost and alone. I have two kids and trying to keep a happy face in front of them is really hard. He maybe see’s them once a week for an hour. Everyone keeps telling me it will get better, but I can’t imagine feeling again. I am on anxiety meds, and have lost 35 pounds, I still cry at least two or three times a day. Everyone keeps telling me I have to get angry, but for some reason I don’t know why I can’t yet. Yes I still love him, but I have not asked him to come back, because I don’t want someone who doesn’t want or love me. This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through!!!! So I feel your pain Rich Pisz, but I have to believe it can only get better, that’s the only way I am getting by.

  30. dina says:

    i was in love wd my bst friend.after 9 months of friendship he proposed me for marraige.it was long distance relationship.after 3 months he started ignoring me.he said his parents donot agree for our marraige so we brokeup and decided to stay friends.but ds was his plan he created such situation for breakup.cz rite after breakup he was nt da person i knew before.he insulted me hurted me.i kept asking him y is he doing ds.den he told me he is in love wd someone else.he treated me sooo badly.insulted me ..its been 6 months now im nt in contact wd him bt im not over him yet.i cry at night wn im alone.i dun hv anyone to whom i can share.i feel i will never ever fall in love or if i do fall in love which i want to…i will never forget ds pain and his harsh words which are written on my heart.he did bad to me bt i still cant hate him.i can live wdout him as im alrdy living bt he is on my mind 24*7..help me i want to be happy again.i cant sleep in peace i just keep crying all da time.

  31. awilo victoria says:

    it might not be so easy to move on with normal life but what is important is to be brave and try as much as possible to associate with the dear ones so as to keep your company.

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  33. Mary says:

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    I grew up with my parents divorced and I do not want that for my son and I miss my husband so much and just want our family to be whole again I want the love of my life and I can honestly say it is the only man who truly loved with all my heart. So seek help from orinokosolutiontemple1@ gmail.com and I and he answered a love spell for me, which I use to return my husband and I feel happy and grateful for the help and I want all of you also have the opportunity to orinokosolutiontemple1@ gmail.com also is the only through help I’ve known. Good luck

  35. LILLIAN says:

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  36. Bb says:

    Am 4rm Nigeria, dia is dis guy i love so much bt he told me 2 my face not 2 wait 4 him. We ve bn 2geda 4 8mths nd i noticed he had a girl dat always txt him & is based outside. Wen i confronted him, he told me he had known d girl b4 me bt i feel like endin d relationship bt dis guy is so carin 2 a fault. My only problem is dis other girl. Pls advice me on wat 2 do

  37. Emma says:

    Hello Emma!

    It was nice reading this blog of yours.

    It kinda gave me an inspiration. I did fall into pieces losing someone I really treasure.
    Worst thing is, I still can see him with another woman these days.

    I guess this article would be a great thing for me. Thanks!

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    Hello To The World At Large, my name is, From mexico. I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster AND AGAIN I WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THIS SPELL CASTER, I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESIRE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman, And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever, So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question, That my lover started cheating on me lately, When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her, She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me, The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her, And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT, POWER, DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER, she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster. SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME, THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS DR.WILLIAMS UMORU. My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster, She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem, really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him, And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next three days, My lover that hated me so much came to my house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile !! The direct email to get to dr Williams is : {[email protected]} ,This is what i want to tell you all for more enlistment contact me with this email address:[email protected]. he is so powerful and helpful…..

  44. harry says:

    harry (USA)

    Thank you so much! I’m telling all my family and friends, your magic power is truly a blessing.
    thanks to Prince cocodu for making my dreams come true! please if you need your ex back or you want to be rich, or you have any financial problem, i will advice you contact prince cocodu you will be glad you did. you can contact him on his [email protected] or through his mobile:+2347014203283,

  45. sandra says:

    I want to express my past life to you on this site my name is Sandra. i want in a relationship with Hoel i love him and we were very happy in our relationship shortly, will got wedded to each other after 2 months, i got pregnant for him and we were very much happy and my family love and like him because of his honest to me and i was so happy God have make my day bright more than before. one day, he was away from my country because will both lives in USA and i was thinking it was the say way will feel for each other not knowing that my husband have a lady in France and this is the lady that called him one day telling him when he’s coming back to France i look i don’t think he we be going to France and he cannot live me here and travel to France then i did not take it serious i over look him and i did not ask him anything about his last call one day, i was in the office with a friend not knowing my husband have left the house my greatest surprise, gotting home i found out his not in i call him on phone not reachable i don’t no what to do i was so worried a day after he called me with another cell phone and say his out of USA then i ask him honey when are you coming back to USA? he said i don’t no yet then he ended the call a week later, i was trying the number he called me with it was not reachable 2 weeks later, i try calling he a lady pick the call and said who are you? then i explain my self to her she said ok i should forget about my husband then i started crying and i said another woman have claim my husband the i don’t no what to do i quickly call my friend tell her all that just happen both of us was looking for solution on how his going to come back to me so one day, i was doing some research on internet in there, i found a comment were some one give a testimony about this man called Dr.Idibia how he was helped by him and his contact email and his number was there so i was so upset to contact this man so i inform my friend again she ask me to give a trier and Dr. Idibia bring back my husband from France to me now am so happy with him and my family is very happy about his coming back to me so if you are in such pain, via email [email protected] OR CALL +2348103508204

  46. happy says:

    Am happy from USA i want to share my great experience to the whole world about how i got my lover back to my arms after we departed for 4 years i never taught that i could have him back in my life until i met this great man named Dr jaja who showed me true powers of spell, Me and Larry Broke up 4 years ago ever since i have not been my self although i have been in several relationship i have not seen who is as good as Larry, so ever since i have been thinking about him, so i had to tell my friend about how i feel for Larry that i wish if i can have him back to my arms, so that was when my friend told me that she was reading a love review the other day when she saw how somebody commented on how she got her lover back with the help of a man named dr
    jaja . So that was how i told her to show me the site were she read the reviews so that was how she showed me and i saw so many reviews about this great man how he helped a lot of people even the sick, without wasting anytime immediately i collected his contact and called him and told him what i want, he just laughed over it and told me not to worry that he will come back to me, so that was how i waited to see what will happen, so surprisingly i got a call from Larry. i was like this is a dream, but later realized that it was reality, Larry was crying and pleading on the phone that he missed me a lot that i should come back to his life, i was like is this real? until he came to my house and went on his knees pleading to me that i should forgive him, so that was how we got united again with the help of great
    jaja, and now we are happily married, thanks be onto dr jaja for what he has done for me, if you need his help you can contact him through [email protected]

  47. Sam says:

    My Sun,
    wet met on a fateful day in January… as a physician she walked across my office to meet a colleague of mine that was her close friend. Without any exaggeration my jaw literally dropped, I was floored by her beauty and grace. After our momentous first date, I knew something was different and within 1 month we were sharing “I love yous” and talked about spending the rest of our lives together. She was my sun, my moon, my heart….. and I utterly adored her!! Fast forward 2 amazing years… we leave to maui for a vacation to celebrate the successful passing of my board exam. The trip was stuff made from romantic movies, long passionate nights, love making on the beach, countless hours holding each other and divulging all of our thoughts… in the most breathtaking of sceneries.After getting back to the mainland, one month later, I get a txt message that she no longer wants anything to do with me!!! Just out of the blue!!! I take it as a complete hoax, but realized she changed her phone number, blocked her skype account, and moved in with a friend so I wouldn’t be able to contact her. My heart shattered into thousands of tiny pieces… why did she do this? Why couldn’t we talk about it? Was I not making her happy? I had spent the better part of 2 years showering her with affection, attention, and love. I kissed her every morning while she slept. I would thank god every night for bringing her into my life. I texted her cute love notes daily. I took care of her parents and friends when it was necessary. Well 3 months later she left to her native country of germany without ever speaking a word to me :( . I found out later that she returned 1 month later only to move in a 22 year old kid (she was 28 and I’m 34). Through some detective work, I discovered that they had been seeing each other for over 6 months prior to disconnecting with me and was madly in love with this kid!! Needless to say the devastation was of epic proportion and a day does not go by that I don’t think about her and what we could have had.. she scarred me for life and for that I can’t forgive her… if she only communicated with me I wouldn’t have been the victim of such a scandalous affair. I feel so desperate, so lonesome, and worthless. Heart break is a dynamic and tumultuous process that eats you up and spites you out only a shell of your former self. Without my sun… the world has become a dark and bleak place without a beacon to look towards….

  48. Cheney says:

    My name is Cheney from uk. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.Oodlia he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is [email protected]

  49. udeen says:

    hello my child
    1.has Someone placed an evil curse on you, your lover or family; and I
    can remove it and it will only cost you some things.
    2.Someone has used roots against you or crossed you up in a prior life.
    3. Someone has burned black candles against you and you need my
    protection! 4. The curse is on your money, send me your money and I
    will cleanse it for you! 5.I am the only one who can help you with
    this situation, and if you do not accept my help your wish will not come
    true! 6.Steer clear of those folks in the tabloids, it is very costly
    to advertise in them and they are extremely competitive and crafty at
    getting your business. 7.Anyone who charges more than a nominal fee
    for their services are not trying to help you, they are only helping
    themselves to your hard earned money. contact [email protected]
    for help and you shall testify

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